Thursday, July 9, 2009

Day 4 - Sobriety Settles In

Yesterday afternoon, Andrew, Maria Marcela's mother Beatriz and I drove over to visit and we found Emily in somewhat of a sober state. She managed to be entertained by Andrew's and Daddy's antics, but those were quickly dissolved when it came time to empty her bladder. Since she will or cannot go on her own, they use a catheter. She needed to go so bad it was hurting her tummy.

During the visit, we learned that the doctor has recommended her go into rehab today at noon, which means going up to the 6th floor. She is unable to stand on her own and we're still in the dark as to the severity of her nerve damage, particulary affecting her legs.

After speaking to Maria Marcela this morning, she described a rough night of waking up or being awoken to empty Emily's bladder, she went on to say how bleak the outlook really is. The doctor paid a visit and was more sober with his diagnosis. He admitted that Emily is a special case and her condition is serious. He believes that the very problem he did surgery to correct could very likely return and be an ongoing problem.

I suppose we can admit that we always knew the propensity of Emily's condition, but somewhat denied how grave the situation actually is.

It is interesting, that upon receiving this news, a couple days prior, a old friend had inquired about whether there was a fund set up for Emily and her medical bills. I didn't really want to think or admit that it could come to something like this, but it may be just what we're being shown to do. I suppose I'm a bit proud to have wanted to do this, but at the same time, I've never been one to want to close doors that are being made evident.

I have set up an account for Emily in which contributions can be made easily through PayPal if one chooses to. I can't stand asking for money. I will state neither that we need or don't need the money, but rather put it in our Father's care. I cannot see what is ahead, but have an idea of the potential financial burden that it could be. If one chooses to, you may send funds using emilysnyder@laydownlife.net at paypal.com.

To send a check via mail please ensure that her account number is listed on the check and mail to the address listed below.

EDSCU
PO Box 259059
Plano, TX 75025

If you would like to wire money to her account below is the information:

Please give the initiating institution the following wire instructions:

To credit:

EDS Credit Union
5640 Democracy Drive
Plano, TX 75024
ABA 311079474

For final credit:

“Insert Emily Snyder - Savings”
“Insert her account number: 14393223-Share Type 8”

We appreciate moreso, everyone's prayers and concern.

1 comment:

Ale said...

I have been in the middle of a dark tunnel before, and always, there are sparks of light that God sends from time to time to help us deal with it until we see the light at the other end.
Hang in there and don´t loose faith.